
I Thought I Knew What Language Development Was Supposed to Look Like
If you didn’t know… I used to be a speech-language pathologist.
I don’t say that to establish credentials, but because it matters for this story — and maybe for yours too.
When my son Anderson was diagnosed with nonverbal autism at 2.5 years old, I went into research mode immediately. I read everything I could find about autism and language development. And because of my background, I thought I had a head start.
I didn’t.
Because what I had learned in graduate school — and what was being modeled in Anderson’s early therapy — was only half the picture. And that missing half cost us time we didn’t have to lose.









